How does it feels to step into a new new world? How does it feels to leave a complete world with every little happiness 1200 km behind and move on with setting up a new one? A few years back I had these questions in my mind when I would acquaint someone moving away from home. Now I know all the answers. It feels good and bad. Sweet and sour at the same time. I was a lot excited about it. Not that I was leaving my home,family and friend behind but about those that I’d make now.
Pune was better than I expected. After a lot of this as that, finally that day comes when you step into a new life. It took me great struggle to get what I have right now. I was never the brightest of the lot I was in, but for some reason, I had my moments every now and then when I would out perform myself and amuse the whole bunch of people around me and even myself. It takes a lot more to prove your worth to people who despise you. IT TAKES A LOT OF PATIENCE. Yes it does. It takes a lot of effort to ignore those people and keep doing things your way. You need to break their rules. You need to break bad.
Last 45 days have been quite an experience for me. Saw a lot of things that altered me as a person. Felt a lot of things that nurtured me a human. Made some fabulous bonds with great people. Learnt things monstrously. Missed home equally. And most of all, been away from this digital personal space for a long time. 😀 Maybe it was due to lack of motivation. Working in my new job I learnt that you tend to work more effectively when you are being recognized for it. I recently realized that my minute digital print on WordPress was being missed. 🙂
I also met few people I would not call “the best alive on earth. 😀 Sorry folks, but that’s that. I can’t pretend to like someone whom I don’t. This corporate world ,at times, makes you doubt your own judgement of people. But I am not gonna break this month long fast of digital silence with bitching about people around me. (Come on, don’t loathe me,everybody likes to bitch about others).
Music has been my soul mate here. It liberates me from all the shit in this world. And when the only thing you do for 8 hrs in a day is listen to music, it kind of start defining your life. You start to connect every single event of the day to the songs you listen. You grow more and more sensitive to sounds. Any type of music starts to sooth your senses. It kind of becomes your drug. It becomes your refuge from all the mental fatigue. It is your stress buster at work. It is your entertainer at home. When you live alone in a new city with new people around you, you certainly need something that can get you high, can get you shut the whole world mentally and take you to a paradise where you rule, where it’s your wish. Some people find this high in booze. I do in music. Weather and a pair of headphones is all I need to feel complete here.
It’s difficult to move to a new city all by yourself. But there have been very few sour experiences. Most of the memories that I have captured in the last 45 days are gonna last for a long time. It makes you feel disgusting to share the same room with someone you don’t know well enough. But that’s when practicality hits you on the face. And slowly you start to ADJUST.
It took me around a week to adjust to this new life. But every now and then there have been turns and twists. Every few weeks there was something new to adjust to. And after 45 days in this city, this is the first weekend when I could sit down, plug in my music and write this blog. That’s how unappealingly eventful my weekends have been. But I love this weekend. No cloths to launder, no utensils to wash. This is “ME TIME”. Apparently I did not realize that I needed this break more than anything until one of my rommie did this. I feel good. Sitting in the balcony with my playlist dancing in my head. This is so good. And the best part is, Sunday is yet to come. Probably tomorrow I’ll read something. But first I am gonna enjoy today, finish this blog, go for a long walk in the pleasantly cold Pune’s evenings. Eat an ice cream maybe and then come back home, sleep early today. That’s my plan for today. It might seem the most boring weekend that anybody could ever spend but that’s me. That’s how I like my weekends. I’d prefer to spend time with myself than party outside with others. I like to socialize a lot but I like to go out on dates with myself more.
I have no idea what the next few month’s gonna bring form me, but whatever they may be, I know I’ll find a way to make the most out of them… 🙂
I see emotions flowing from your fingers. A very nice writeup bro. Feels really good to see this mature side of you and seeing you grow as a person. Keep writing and as you said there is nothing better than a little “ME TIME”. I wish you only the best for your life. 🙂
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That probably was the fastest comment I’ve received. 😀 Thanks pavi for those lovely words 🙂
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BTW where is your blog?
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Only, now I know what it’s like to settle down. Been moving around from pillar to post my whole life… know how it feels. 🙂
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Feels good that what I feel is normal
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Yes, I feel too. Aggarwal sounds Indian; my second home, India 🙂
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I am 🙂 in pune right now
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Ah, I knew it. 🙂 I’m not Indian, but I follow the ancient Vedic culture of bhakti-yoga. I used to live in India a lot, but since my guru departed this world, I haven’t made it back since three years now, because of health problems. Longing to go back some day 🙂
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Ahh nice. It seems like you have a better spiritual connection with India that I
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He he, not entirely. You were born in the land of dharma. ~We outsiders have to work at it 🙂
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🙂 where were you in India? and where are you right now?
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I sit down to write and then I don’t. Will start real soon. 🙂
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Perfect! It’s great to know that you’re settling down bro.
For having experienced a few of these during my Mumbai stint, I can connect with your blog. All this ‘me time’ is what will make you.
Well, keep writing and stay alive! 🙂
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Hey Hey hey! 😀 I was waiting for this post for quite a while, even nagged you bout it then these treacherous things called exams were bitchin me. -_- Anyway, I can totally relate to almost everything you’ve put up there. I’m about to be done with school.. Its going be a new place very soon for me and I can imagine all of this happening to me. Its kind of heartwarming I guess to know that things will be okay. Thabk you for the hope. 🙂 Good luck! And keep the posts coming. 🙂
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Things will be more than ok my friend. You are big girl.
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More or less, your story resonates with mine as well.
I have been off to Bangalore (first time away from home) in the past and enjoyed preparing for MBA entrance exams more than doing anything else. Sometimes I enjoy just keeping to myself.
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